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Tarot Five of Wands as Feelings for Ex or Present Partner

    What is your first thought when you see the card 5 of Wands? When I looked at it I wasn’t sure whether the boys are fighting or trying to cooperate and do something together.

    In this post, I will tell you my opinion of what the Five of Wands means, in particular, the Five of Wands as feelings. And I will also describe all the love meanings of this card in your love tarot readings.

    The Five of Wands as feelings means that he tends either to struggle or to cooperate with you in building your relationship. Much depends upon your situation. To learn exactly – read the post.

    You’ll also get your personal free readings about “How he feels about me?”, “Does he love me?”, etc. To see – scroll down the article.

    Take a look at the love meanings of the Major Arcana here.

    General Meaning of the Upright 5 of Wands in Love and Relationships

    After I got confused with the card meaning, I first decided to look its meaning up in the book of Arthur Waite. He wrote that it was an imitation of fighting. That means that it’s not a collaborative effort.

    So, the Five of Wands is a card of a competition. This is a card that says that a person is given the opportunity to prove his skills, to show his talents and abilities, to show that he is competitive and that he is worthy to take the place for which he is fighting. We see five young people, and each of them has a rod or a wand. Please note that these are wands, not swords, that is the most suitable weapon option for fighting. Therefore, there is not a true fight, but some competition.

    Also, the number 5 in the Tarot means a kind of crisis. After joy, harmony, and stability in 4 of Wands, something changes and the crises occurs and you try to find your way. This card does not talk about the result, it talks about the process.

    So the general meaning of the Five of Wands in card reading is:

    • Struggling, fighting
    • Competition

    You may also take a look at the love meaning of Ace of Wands, Two of Wands, Three of Wands, Four of Wands, Five of Wands, Six of Wands, Seven of Wands, Eight of Wands, Nine of Wands, Ten of Wands

    Upright Five of Wands as Feelings in Love Tarot Card Reading

    Tarot Five of Wands as Will I find my new love?

    The Five of Wands as new love means that your new love is visible on the horizon. But you won’t get it easily. You will have to fight for it. It is also possible that your future relationship will be full of passion and quarrels for getting into a thing with each other. Indeed, for some couples, this is the true manifestation of love.

    Tarot Five of Wands as feelings. Five of Wands as How he feels about me?

    Five of Wands as feelings means that he is passionate about you because Wands denote passion. Still, his feelings are mixed with some struggle. A struggle with oneself or with some external circumstances or people. It is possible that in his understanding there can be no even relations and relations must be hot and boil – relations full of disputes, proving a point of view of each other. Or in your couple, he feels that he must fight for leadership. Or he is not yet ready for a serious relationship, to which you are urging him. In any case, he experiences passion and internal struggle.

    Tarot Five of Wands: Will he confess his love?

    Passion boils in his heart. But can it be love and sincere feeling? The card says he’s fighting with himself. Perhaps he is not completely sure that this is a true feeling. Or he has external circumstances that he is not yet able to overcome. And as a result, he is currently unable to talk about his feelings.

    Is he a good match / partner for me? Is he the one?

    The relationships with this partner are filled with struggle. Therefore, he will be a good partner for whom such a relationship is acceptable. On the other hand, the card Five of Wands may mean that you will have to fight and make an effort to make him the perfect partner for you.

    Tarot Five of Wands: Will he make a marriage proposal?

    The fight goes on inside his soul. He argues with himself about this. The card does not say about the result, so most likely he will not make an offer. But he thinks about it, and he himself can not yet decide for himself what to do. There are factors, both internal and external, that hinder this.

    Five of Wands as Feelings

    Upright Five of Wands as Feelings of Your Ex in Tarot Card Reading

    Tarot Five of Wands: Does my Ex love me? How does my ex feel about me?

    Five of Wands as feelings for an Ex means that he is struggling with himself and his feelings. No, it is not love, these are remnants and fragments from your relationship. These are conflicts and quarrels that do not allow him to calmly forget you. Most likely, you hurt him deeply. And he wants to prove something to himself and to you.

    Does my Ex remember me? Does my Ex miss me?

    Five of Wands as does he miss me means that he remembers and thinks of you. But this does not bring him joy and peace. He is stressed, he is fighting with his thoughts of you and wants to get rid of these memories.

    Will my Ex come back?

    Five of Wands as reconciliation means that he has the desire to sort things out in your relationship and to prove something to you or even to himself. At the same time, he is not ready to compromise. Therefore, this card does not predict a true and harmonious reunion.

    Five of Wands as Feelings for Ex

    Upright Five of Wands Meaning for Relationship Analysis. Five of Wands as Outcome after Break-Up.

    Five of Wands in the relationship analysis means that the relationships are not harmonious. Because hardly anyone can live in constant competition with a partner. This card means constant disputes. Two strong people and two strong partners live together and compete with each other. Each of you works to develop the relationship and makes a contribution. And each of you argues with a partner about who has done more for their relationship. The only question is how long are you both willing to live in such a relationship?

    Five of Wands as an outcome after a breakup means that you will be sorting things out in your relationship for a long time. Either with a partner or with yourself. You have a lot of unexplained and unresolved issues. And you want to dot the i’s. But does it make sense? On the card, people are fighting, not building something.


    Here I tried to summarize everything and give you very brief information in the table below.

    Five of Wands as feelings and in Love ReadingsYour reading
    Will I find new love?Yes, but you’ll have to struggle for it
    Does he love me? How he feels about me?He has a passion for you, still, he is struggling with his feelings
    Will he confess his love?Not likely
    Is he a good partner for me?Not sure, but he may be if you struggle to make that happen
    Will he make a marriage proposal?Not likely
    Does my Ex love me?Not really, his heart is full of struggle
    Does my Ex miss me? Does he remember me?Yes…still…
    Will he come back?Not likely

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    Disclaimer. All information is provided strictly for educational purposes. It doesn’t take into account anybody’s specific circumstances or situation. If you are making any decisions and require advice, please, consult a professional whom you trust.