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Tarot Seven of Wands as Feelings for Ex or Present Partner

    Although the pictures on the cards are not very similar, the meaning of the 7 of Wands is similar to the 5 of Wands. But there is a significant difference.

    In this post, I will tell you my opinion of what the Seven of Wands means, in particular, Seven of Wands as feelings. And I will also describe all the love meanings of this card in your love tarot readings.

    The Seven of Wands as feelings means that there is a conflict in someone’s soul. If you want to know what it is all about – read the post.

    You’ll also get your personal free readings about “How does he feel about me?”, “Does he love me?”, etc. To see – scroll down the article.

    Take a look at the love meanings of the Major Arcana here.

    General Meaning of the Upright 7 of Wands in Love and Relationships

    I am sure you remember, that 6 of Wands means that the man has won an intermediate victory. And the 7 of Wands says that after achieving a certain success, you cannot relax. The card says it’s time to fight for better results and achievements.

    On card 7 of Wands, we see some struggle, rather even defense. Here we see the same struggle card as the Five of Wands. But in the Five, everyone is equal, everyone has equal opportunities. In the Seven, a person stands on a hill, and his opponents stand somewhere far below, we don’t even see them. We see only their weapons – wands. Therefore, initially with 7 of Wands, the position is much better and more profitable, there are more opportunities and more strength.

    Therefore, the Seven of Wands also shows that you have to fight for your goal, protecting your rights and interests. But nevertheless, no matter what difficulties and obstacles stand in your way, you will overcome these difficulties, and victory will be yours. This Victory is much more significant than that in the Six of Wands.

    Also, the card of the Seven of Wands can denote that all sorts of doubts have begun to creep into you about yourself, and about others and the world around you in general, about various situations and life circumstances.

    The sevens of the minor arcana also indicate that you may have fear on a subconscious level. And this may be one of the reasons for your current state.

    In card readings, the Seven of Wands means a change in the field of activity, requiring dedication, great effort, and greater determination. Your views and beliefs will be sharply criticized and you will have to participate in heated debates.

    So the general meaning of the Seven of Wands in card reading is:

    • tension, conflict
    • protecting one’s interests
    • hesitation and doubt in some cases

    You may also take a look at the love meaning of Ace of Wands, Two of Wands, Three of Wands, Four of Wands, Five of Wands, Six of Wands, Seven of Wands, Eight of Wands, Nine of Wands, Ten of Wands

    Upright Seven of Wands as Feelings in Love Tarot Card Reading

    Tarot Seven of Wands as Will I find my new love?

    Seven of Wands as new love means that you have to defend your rights to a new love. You will have to fight either with circumstances or with third parties who will introduce obstacles and delays. But you will succeed with it. But the relationship, at least at the initial stage, will not be easy. You will always need to defend your point of view.

    If you have already met someone, then now the situation for your love is not entirely favorable due to the reasons written above.

    Tarot Seven of Wands as feelings. Seven of Wands as How he feels about me?

    Seven of Wands as feelings means that both, love and alienation, are fighting in the partner’s heart. One moment he loves you, the next he doesn’t. This may be because he is struggling with his doubts or wants to defend his status or position (which he may lose if he fully immerses himself in your relationship). What this will lead to – an additional card will say.

    Card 7 of Wands as how he feels about me can also tell about the influence of third parties on his attitude and feelings towards you. And this influence is obviously not positive.

    Will he confess his love?

    Seven of Wands will tell you about his confession in love and that his heart is full of conflict now. He experiences doubts and hesitations. He may wonder if he really loves you or not. Also, this card can mean that someone from the outside (friends, family) can instill these doubts in him. Therefore, do not expect confession, it is unlikely that it will happen.

    Is he a good match / partner for me? Is he the one?

    Well, the card denotes that this person is more of a temporary salvation from loneliness than a man of your life. You will always have to defend your boundaries, interests, and views. This kind of relationship is not for everyone. After all, there is little harmony in them.

    Will he make a marriage proposal?

    The card means a need for protecting one’s interests and protecting one’s status. Only you know what status he is ready to defend – either to be married to you or to be single and free of obligations. On the other hand, this card 7 of Wands means that there is someone else who is interfering in the situation. Perhaps someone from the outside does not allow him to make a decision and he struggles and hesitates. But in any case, the forecast of 7 of Wands as marriage is more likely no than yes.

    Seven of Wands as feelings

    Upright Seven of Wands as Feelings of Your Ex in Tarot Card Reading

    Tarot Seven of Wands: Does my Ex love me? How does my ex feel about me?

    Seven of Wands as feelings for an Ex means that there is an internal conflict in his heart towards you. And he wants to get rid of it. He is at the top (look at his position on the card), he is protecting his circle and boundaries and he does not need the experiences associated with you now.

    Does my Ex remember me? Does my Ex miss me?

    Seven of Wands means that he remembers you, but not because he loves you. He recalls conflicts and the need to defend his interests. At the moment I see that he is at the top, he is on the right horse so to say. Therefore, this situation is no longer so important to him – he is above all memories connected with you.

    Will my Ex come back?

    Hesitation and the desire to defend his boundaries and interests drive him. Most likely, he is fighting with himself or with third parties who can interfere in the situation. But the card says that he is on the right horse and will not change his path. He is ready to fight for what he has now. And therefore Seven of Wands as reconciliation tells that most likely returning to you, this is not what he is now ready to fight for.

    Seven of Wands as feelings for Ex

    Upright Seven of Wands Meaning for Relationship Analysis. Seven of Wands as Outcome after Break-Up.

    For relationships, 7 of Wands is unfavorable, because it means that someone always interferes in your relationships. There is always a third person in the relationship, sometimes it can be a love triangle, but not necessarily.

    But in any case, even if there are no third parties interfering in your relationships, Seven of Wands as relationship analysis denotes difficult relationships. Because all the forces of the partners are spent on sorting out things and on resolving conflicts. That’s why the relationship is not harmonious.

    At the same time, Seven of Wands as relationship outcome means that you have a favorable position and you will gain your victory. Still, the conflicts will not come to an end soon.

    Seven of Wands after breakup means that your partner wants to prove something to you, to defend his interests and position. This is bubbling in his soul and he is ready for decisive actions. But it is unlikely that this will lead to anything other than conflict.


    Here I tried to summarize everything and give you very brief information in the table below.

    Seven of Wands as feelings and in Love ReadingsYour reading
    Will I find new love?Yes, but be careful
    Does he love me? How he feels about me?Yes, still he has some hesitations
    Will he confess his love?Not likely
    Is he a good partner for me?Not likely
    Will he make a marriage proposal?Not likely
    Does my Ex love me?Not really
    Does my Ex miss me? Does he remember me?Yes…still…
    Will he come back?Not likely

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    Disclaimer. All information is provided strictly for educational purposes. It doesn’t take into account anybody’s specific circumstances or situation. If you are making any decisions and require advice, please, consult a professional whom you trust.