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Tarot Three of Wands as Feelings for Ex or Present Partner

    The Two of Wands means a need to make a choice or decision. Three of Wands tells that the choice has been made and realization of this decision follows. 

    The Three of Wands as feelings means your partner’s readiness to build relationships, to develop them. Look at the card – the man is yet alone, but he has already decided everything and is ready to act and build strong relationships.

    In this post, I will tell you why the Three of Wands as feelings is a good card to get, and I will also describe all the love meanings of this card in your love tarot readings.

    You’ll also get your personal free readings about “How he feels about me?”, “Does he love me?”, etc. To see – scroll down the article.

    Take a look at the love meanings of the Major Arcana here.

    General Meaning of the Upright 3 of Wands in Love and Relationships

    First of all, let’s take a look at the general meanings of the card.

    On the card, I see a man in bright clothes, which symbolize his wealth and good social position. There is a lot of yellow color on the card, which is the color of prosperity and wealth. Red color means fire, and strength, and green means development, and creativity.

    I don’t see the man’s face and I don’t know what emotions he is experiencing. But Waite writes that he is calm and therefore confident of success. I understand that a person has already decided on his needs, decided on his desires, and already has a specific goal to achieve.

    There are 3 wands on the card, each of them has 3 branches with 3 leaves. Three ships. The three predominant colors on the card (red, green yellow). 

    Three, as a number, symbolizes growth and development. Even if we draw an analogy with the Major Arcana, then the 3-rd arcanum is the Empress. And the Empress also has the meaning of growth and development.

    If the Two of Wands showed the need for a decision, then the Three of Wands had already launched the flywheel of events, as M. Greer writes in her book. In the Tarot, the non-figurative Three is related to themes of networking, co-creation, and the vicissitudes of trinity relationships, R. Pollack says.

    So the general meaning of the Three of Wands in card reading is:

    • growth and development
    • making a decision for further implementation
    • networking
    • co-creation
    • good prospects in future

    You may also take a look at the love meaning of Ace of Wands, Two of Wands, Three of Wands, Four of Wands, Five of Wands, Six of Wands, Seven of Wands, Eight of Wands, Nine of Wands, Ten of Wands

    Upright Three of Wands as Feelings in Love Tarot Card Reading

    Tarot Three of Wands as Will I find my new love?

    Here I cover the meaning that is usually used for a one-card spread for singles with only one question.

    Three of Wands as new love means that you’ll find a new partner for sure. Most likely, it will be a partner who has the same interests as you. Or perhaps you will meet each other in a group of people who share the same interests or hobbies. Or you will participate in one project or some other joint activity.

    The card also tells of a reliable and businesslike person. Therefore, there is every chance that this person will be a very promising partner for you.

    Tarot Three of Wands as feelings. Three of Wands as How he feels about me?

    Three of Wands as feelings means that he feels ready to develop and strengthen relationships with you. This is a card of co-creation according to Rachel Pollak. The card also indicates his readiness to move to a new higher level with good prospects.

    Yes, the card does not tell of deep emotions and overwhelming experiences, but it is about a confident understanding of what a person needs in a relationship. He feels the prospect of a strong relationship with you and is ready to act to achieve this. He is serious in his intention and feelings

    Tarot Three of Wands: Will he confess his love?

    Three of Wands as Will he confess his love is likely to answer you ‘Yes’ if you have a harmonious relationship and you feel that he is ready for this. If so, then he really has already decided and is ready to act in order to move to a new level of your relations.

    Is he a good match / partner for me? Is he the one?

    Tarot Three of Wands is a very good card to answer this question. Three of Wands means that this person is a good match for you. Because you share many common interests. Both of you are interested in developing and strengthening relationships.

    He is a very reliable person. He likes to plan and achieve his goals. And since this card means joint cooperation, it can also mean his strong desire to plan and achieve your joint goals.

    Tarot Three of Wands: Will he make a marriage proposal?

    Anthony Louis writes in his book Tarot Beyond the Basics: Gain a Deeper Understanding of the Meanings Behind the Cards (check it here) that the Three of Wands indicates some kind of common action with another person (or people). It is also a card of co-creation according to Rachel Pollack. 

    So, Three of Wands as marriage means that your partner is ready for the growth and development of your relationship. Even he is ready to take the plunge to take your relationship to the next level. And if you now have a harmonious relationship and the situation contributes to this, then it is very likely that he will make you a marriage proposal.

    At the same time, if there is no complete harmony and an obvious logical conclusion in the form of a marriage, then the card means that he may be considering that it is time to somehow change the relationship. How exactly to change – the surrounding cards or your intuition will tell you.

    Three of Wands as Feelings

    Upright Three of Wands as Feelings of Your Ex in Tarot Card Reading

    Tarot Three of Wands: Does my Ex love me? How does my ex feel about me?

    Three of Wands as feelings of your ex means that he is clearly interested and curious about you. He wants to know everything about you. It’s not exactly love or strong feelings, but it’s a kind of mental connection. He looks at you from afar, like this man on the card.

    In turn, he has confident plans for how his personal life will develop. Perhaps there is already someone in his mind. Whether it is you or another person – you can guess from your situation.

    This card shows that he is ready to take a decisive step toward someone with whom he has common affairs and interests. If this applies to you, then he is ready to help. He is ready to help in common affairs.

    Does my Ex remember me? Does my Ex miss me?

    He is now busy planning a new stage in his life, including relationships.

    Tarot Three of Wands as Does he miss me means that for him, the old relationship is most likely already completed, so he does not suffer and does not miss you. The partner is already ready to take some new decisive steps in life. But at the same time, he can watch you out of curiosity.

    If you haven’t been together for quite some time, this card could mean that he may already have someone he’s determined to get into a relationship with.

    Will my Ex come back?

    The Three of Wands as reconciliation tells that he is ready for something new in his life. The old is left behind, and the new is ready for implementation. He does not worry about anything, he is full of confidence and willingness to act.

    It may be a reunion with you, but the relationship will be in a new way. Here it is important for you to understand whether you are ready to build a relationship with this person in a new way. And most likely the way he planned it.

    Or it means the final break. But it will not bring you great pain. You can count on your partner’s support and mutual assistance. So everything will go smoothly. Most importantly, this means that planning for a new stage in life and relationships will soon begin.

    Three of Wands as Feelings for Ex

    Upright Three of Wands Meaning for Relationship Analysis. Three of Wands as Outcome after Break-Up.

    If you are in a harmonious relationship, the card tells that the relationship will develop i.e. that the partners will want to move forward together and develop this relationship. Perhaps there will be new common hobbies or interests. In any case, with harmonious relationships, the card says that the relationship is very promising and strong, based on mutual assistance and mutual respect for each other. You live with one breath and common interests.

    If there is no harmony in the relationship, then the card may indicate an attempt to improve relations. Or even complete them. Because on the card a confident person is shown, then you will already know by the behavior of your partner what he is ready for. In any case, the card tells that he has not only already made a decision, but is ready to implement it. Also, if a break-up is coming as a result, then it does not have any tragic effect on you.

    Three of Wands after a breakup means that the person has already decided how to change his life and the sphere of relations as well. He confidently plans this step and is ready to implement it. And it may be like a reunion, but the relationship will be built in a new way. Or it may be the final break and planning for a new future. It all depends on your situation.


    Here I tried to summarize everything and give you very brief information in the table below.

    Three of Wands as feelings and in Love ReadingsYour reading
    Will I find new love?Yes
    Does he love me? How he feels about me?He has strong and serious intentions
    Will he confess his love?It depends upon your situation, but very likely
    Is he a good partner for me?Yes, sure
    Will he make a marriage proposal?It depends upon your situation, but very likely
    Does my Ex love me?Not really, but he has interest
    Does my Ex miss me? Does he remember me?Yes…still…
    Will he come back?Not likely

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